"You'll Have to Support Them for the Rest of Your Life"... Seo Jang-hoon and Lee Kyung-kyu Criticize Partner's Lifestyle Patterns

The cast members of the JTBC variety program 'Love War' discussed the impact that a romantic partner's accepting attitude could have on future married life.

According to a highlight video released on the JTBC Entertainment channel on the 28th, the cast members engaged in a conversation regarding a specific participant's lifestyle and the corresponding attitude of their partner. In the video, the cast members expressed concerns that the partner's attitude of accepting everything could potentially make the other person irresponsible.

"Like a fish already caught"... The problems caused by an accepting attitude

In the conversation in the video, the cast members mentioned situations where one partner accepts all the actions of the other, analyzing that such an attitude could cause the partner to feel complacency beyond the stability of the relationship. The cast members pointed out that the partner has the conviction that "even if I act like this, they won't leave," and that "because they think they won't leave and will stay by my side, they think of them like a fish already caught." They noted that this psychology could be the reason why the partner does not stop their current behavior and continues it even more in the future.

In particular, the cast members suggested the opinion that treating a partner like a son and accepting everything could make that partner act like an elementary school student. Specific lifestyle habits, such as not opening the washing machine door and instead reaching underneath it when doing laundry, were mentioned, and it was discussed that such an accepting attitude could cause an imbalance in the relationship.

The issue of 'lifestyle patterns' and responsibility being more important than occupation

The cast members emphasized that it is not simply a matter of occupation, but that daily 'lifestyle patterns' and 'responsibility' are the core of a relationship. In the video, a specific individual's irregular economic activities and lifestyle were mentioned. The cast members mentioned situations where income varies depending on peak and off-peak seasons, saying that it is necessary to do constructive work or do one's best to save money during the peak season. Opinions continued that if marriage is being considered, one should show responsibility, such as steadily saving money by working part-time jobs anywhere.

The cast members emphasized, "The occupation is not the problem, the lifestyle pattern is the problem," and warned that if the current lifestyle continues, it could result in "working your fingers to the bone to support them for the rest of your life." The perspective presented by the cast members is that the partner's attitude of waiting to maintain the current relationship could lead to a lack of responsibility in the partner in the future.