"Ignoring post-surgery recovery"... The core of the conflict for a couple in their 70s is sexual intercourse and consideration

A conflict has been revealed between a husband who emphasizes only his unilateral position in the marital relationship and a wife whose physical recovery status is not being considered. On MBC's 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', the issue of sexual intercourse between the couple that occurred during the post-surgery recovery process and the resulting emotional rift were addressed.

The husband admits he was "coercive," while the wife's physical recovery is ignored

In the video, the husband admitted to the truth regarding the 'coercive marital relationship' mentioned by his wife. While admitting there were coercive aspects in the past, the husband explained that after subsequent arguments occurred, they stopped having relations altogether. In particular, even though the wife was in a state where her physical recovery was not complete after undergoing surgery, the husband suggested that he failed to sufficiently consider her condition, as he was optimistic about her state after discharge.

The wife lamented that although she mentioned several times that her body had not recovered after the surgery, the husband ignored it. The wife expressed deep disappointment along with a feeling of not being protected by her spouse. On the other hand, the husband mentioned that the only person to satisfy his desires is his spouse, and said that this is causing continuous strife between the couple.

The core of the relationship is 'consent and agreement'... The deepening emotional rift of a couple in their 70s

The cast emphasized that while sexual intercourse is a process of forming intimacy and having children, above all, it must be predicated on the consent and agreement of the partner. They explained that especially in a marital relationship, adjustment, coordination, and consideration are essential because each person's timing may differ. In this case, the analysis suggests that the failure to consider the wife's situation while she had not recovered from surgery led beyond a simple issue of sexual desire to an experience of not being protected as a spouse.

The depth of the conflict appeared even heavier in conjunction with their age. The wife, who is currently 70 years old, showed a resigned attitude, saying it seems meaningless to try to solve the problem at this stage. In the process of pointing out that the factors of conflict between the couple lie with both sides, it was confirmed that the emotional rift accumulated over a long time is in a state that is difficult to fill easily.