Advice on career concerns from a boyfriend on break: "I feel more embarrassed than as a partner"

In a situation where one person is taking a break after resigning, conflict arose due to the partner's behavior of rushing the other's future plans even though they themselves are also resting.

According to a highlight video from the JTBC entertainment program 'Love War', the conversation began when a man, who is resting after resigning, mentioned future career plans and obtaining certifications to a woman. The man expressed his opinion that one should consider work that can be done steadily in the long term, and that it would be good to at least have a certification that allows for minimal work.

"Feeling embarrassed as a partner"... Woman appeals of depression due to nagging

The woman showed immediate resistance to the man's advice. In the conversation in the video, the woman reminded him that she herself has also only been resigned for about a month or two, expressing embarrassment at hearing such things from her partner while she is also resting. The woman explained the psychological pressure caused by the man's remarks, stating, "Suddenly my depression spikes, and I feel embarrassed rather than feeling like a partner."

When the man pressured her by mentioning the current economic situation (cash holdings, stocks, etc.) and saying she must consider it seriously, the woman responded by saying, "Aren't you also not working and resting right now?" The man explained that he has not been resigned for long and was speaking from a long-term perspective.

The resting man's gameplay leads to 'double standard' controversy

The conversation took on a 'double standard' aspect as the man's way of resting was revealed. The woman pointed out that beyond enjoying leisure by watching TV or looking at her phone after resigning, the man plays games until dawn. In particular, the tension in the conversation increased as it was mentioned that despite playing games all night, the man remained at a low rank (Bronze).

The woman lamented that the man's attitude of demanding a future from her while he himself is resting "makes me feel really bad." When the man asked for a solution, the woman questioned his way of pushing the conversation forward without any specific plans. The video concluded by suggesting that the man's attitude left him with no way out.