Ji Yeon-soo's reason for hesitating to meet her son Min-su: "Considering the child's disappointment and expectations"

Ji Yeon-soo is showing a cautious attitude to minimize the emotional shock to her child ahead of meeting her son Min-su. According to the details revealed through TV CHOSUN's 'We Got Divorced 2', Ji Yeon-soo appeared to be contemplating the method and location of the meeting, prioritizing how her son will perceive the situation.

"Not too special a place"... A meeting place tailored to the child's level

While preparing to meet her son Min-su, Ji Yeon-soo sought to choose a familiar and comfortable place rather than a flashy or special one. Considering that Min-su is young, her position is to prioritize familiar restaurants or routes that she, as a mother, can visit comfortably at any time.

Ji Yeon-soo worried that if she takes the child to a place that is too wonderful or special, the child might later harbor expectations again, saying, "Mom, let's go to that place we went to last time." For now, she expressed that she is waiting for the time when the child can fully accept the situation, stating it would be better for something to be sweet once Min-su can fully accept it. Her plan is to continue meetings in familiar places within a range that does not place a burden on the child.

Between surprise and composure, worries for her son's emotional stability

Ji Yeon-soo's deep contemplation continued regarding the method of the meeting. She struggled between the fact that a sudden surprise method could instill further expectations in the child, and conversely, that treating him too nonchalantly could cause confusion. She appeared worried that if she meets him too calmly by entering the house first, Min-su might wait for his father every time he comes home. It is a concern made with the fact that his father will be leaving in mind.

The reason she did not give any hints to Min-su in advance is also to prevent the confusion the child may experience in the process of accepting the situation. Ji Yeon-soo is carefully observing the child's psychological changes while worrying about how Min-su will accept the situation.

During the meeting that day, while sharing daily conversations such as Min-su's school arrival and dismissal schedules, she shared her deep inner thoughts on what way would be wise to approach him for the child's emotional stability.

Source: TVCHOSUN JOY (YouTube)