Omar advises man in international marriage to focus on his family

During a counseling session on the Omar's Life YouTube channel, Omar told a man married through an agency to stop dwelling on past inferiority regarding South Korean women and instead act as a haven for his wife, who has been in South Korea for only two weeks.

Sharp advice regarding relationship responsibilities and basic etiquette has been shared. In counseling content released through the YouTube channel Omar's Life, participant Omar took a direct stance toward those who abandon etiquette between partners or remain buried in past emotions after marriage.

"No partner exists without gift preparation"... A rebuke regarding basic etiquette

Upon receiving a concern about a partner who does not celebrate a significant other's birthday, Omar drew a line, stating this is not a matter of simple clumsiness but a matter of "etiquette." He contrasted a case where a partner prepared a hand-knitted scarf, gifts, a letter, and a cake for a girlfriend against a man who, despite knowing it was a birthday, prepared nothing and simply accepted the other person's sincerity.

Omar pointed out, "Problems such as being clumsy with methods or not liking one's own handwriting in a letter are unavoidable, but preparing nothing at all is a completely different issue." Specifically, regarding the excuse, "I didn't know because I have never celebrated birthdays myself," he emphasized that showing minimum sincerity on a partner's birthday is a fundamental part of a relationship, regardless of one's personality, calling such an excuse "nonsense."

"If you are married, other genders do not matter"... Responding to the inferiority complex of a man in an international marriage

The following counseling session addressed the concerns of a man who chose an international marriage. The story involved a man who married through an agency but was tormented by sudden surges of inferiority because he was not chosen by South Korean women in the past. In response, Omar took a firm stance, mentioning the weight of the choice of marriage.

Omar stated, "If it is a married life you chose yourself to be happy and to have children, you must now focus on that choice." He explained that once one has become a married man, how other members of the opposite sex perceive him is no longer within his domain. He pointed out that remaining stuck in past feelings of inferiority is an unhealthy thought for his current family, his wife, and his unborn child.

Must become a 'haven' for a wife in a foreign land

Omar paid particular attention to the situation where the wife has only been in South Korea for two weeks. He advised that the role a husband must play for a wife facing an unfamiliar environment in a foreign country is not to dwell on past inferiority, but to be a haven for her.

He added, "Worrying about why South Korean women did not choose me cannot be a solution," and "There will be many areas you must fill for your wife, who came looking only at you into a vast wilderness." He concluded the counseling by emphasizing that the essence of married life lies in cherishing one another and being faithful to the family, regardless of nationality.

Source: original video (YouTube)