Mother confesses impulses to abandon son while showing affection to pet

A mother on "Oh Eun-young Report: Marriage Hell" revealed extreme impulses to kidnap or abandon her son, highlighting a domestic environment of physical force and emotional neglect that has left the child experiencing symptoms resembling hyperventilation.

A precarious domestic situation characterized by repeated rejection, neglect, and fear caused by physical force toward a child has been revealed. A case of a couple introduced on "Oh Eun-young Report: Marriage Hell" shows an aggressive parenting environment that is difficult for a child to endure and the resulting breakdown of the mother-son relationship.

"I want to kidnap him or abandon him," mother's shocking confession

In the video, a mother candidly confessed that her feelings toward her son have deviated from the normal range. She felt so limited in her parenting that she told her husband, "I don't care if we divorce, but I don't think I can raise the child." She even disclosed experiencing extreme impulses, such as wanting the child to be kidnapped or abandoned at a place like a utility pole. While her husband attempted to soothe her by calling these impulsive thoughts, the mother requested help, recognizing the seriousness of the situation as these thoughts recur.

At the root of this psychological state lay continuous rejection and neglect of the child. The repetitive nature of the situation whenever the child burst into tears caused the child to experience both fear from physical force and emotional abandonment. In particular, the child's crying acted like a "trigger button" for the mother, creating a vicious cycle that worsened the situation.

"My baby" to the dog, but "rejection" to the son

The most prominent feature of the mother's parenting attitude is the stark difference in how she treats her child versus her pet. The mother confessed that she does not feel the sentiment of "my baby" when looking at her son. In contrast, when looking at her dog, she showed affection as if it were her own child, stating, "It is so cute and lovely." This difference shocked her husband and caused the mother to repeatedly engage in self-reproach and doubt, saying to herself, "I am worse than the dog."

Unstable behavior was also observed in her relationship with the child. The mother showed a habit of repeatedly asking the child, "Do you love me?" and "Do you not hate me?" This behavior stems from an anxiety that she is not receiving love from the child, which instead serves to increase confusion for the child. When the child requested to be held or craved affection, the mother maintained a stance of rejection, such as pushing the child away and telling them to go to their room to calm down rather than accepting the request.

Recurring fear and the need for separation

The conflict within the home led to physical and mental crises for the child. The video captured an urgent situation where the child appeared to experience extreme anxiety and symptoms resembling hyperventilation. As the fear felt by the child reached a breaking point, danger signals appeared that went beyond simple discipline.

Recognizing the seriousness of the situation, experts suggested that physical separation may be necessary for the child's safety. They pointed out that the child's environment is a structural problem where fear from physical force and emotional neglect are repeated, suggesting that fundamental measures for the child's protection are urgent.

Source: original video (YouTube)