Husband reveals psychological toll of wife's constant angry phone calls

Appearing on JTBC's 'Divorce Camp', a husband expressed a 40 percent intention to divorce following ten years of marriage marked by his wife's verbal outbursts and repetitive calls of up to thirty times in a row.

A couple's conflict, broken by repetitive anger and a breakdown in communication, has been revealed. Appearing on JTBC's 'Divorce Camp', the couple showcased a precarious relationship, highlighting the wife's incessant angry phone calls and the husband's psychological limits.

"You are an evil in society"... Wife's verbal outbursts and group chat exposures

To resolve conflicts with her husband, the wife chose extreme methods, such as uploading call recordings to a family group chat. When the husband failed to listen to her or did not provide the desired reaction, she would share recordings so the family could see the situation, pushing him by saying, "Feel some shame." During this process, the wife expressed her emotions through harsh language, telling her husband, "You are an evil in society," and "Living with you is an evil in society."

The husband felt deep self-reproach due to the wife's attitude. He expressed his suffering, stating, "I feel a sense of self-reproach, wondering if this is how I should be living," because the wife's calls continued even while he was working. In particular, the husband reported that if the wife's mood did not improve, she would "keep calling twenty or thirty times in a row." Because of this pattern, people around them would say, "They are fighting again," noting how she spoils the atmosphere.

"Why did it become like this after living together for ten years?"... Accumulated emotions and mismatched dialogue

The couple's conflict was not formed in a short period. The video revealed emotional fluctuations accumulated over a long time, with mentions of "why it became like this after living together for ten years." The wife was angry that the husband did not acknowledge her hardships. Explaining that she uses more intense words to make the husband agitated because he seems not to get hurt, she said, "Because he doesn't seem to get hurt, I say even more hurtful things."

The husband questioned his collapsed quality of life. In the video, he lamented his pain, asking, "Is this living? Is this being happy? Are we living to be happy? What are we living for?"

40% intention to divorce... Affection remains, but the path is long for the couple

The couple's relationship currently stands at a crossroads between reconciliation and separation. The husband revealed, "My intention to divorce is forty percent." While there are issues with the wife's personality, he suggested that affection still remains between them, stating that if those issues were resolved, he has "sufficient [will] to live together."

To resolve the couple's problems, an expert advised, "In your current state, you must acknowledge and accept the problems." The analysis suggests that to overcome the wounds accumulated over ten years, they must start by facing each other's problems directly.

Source: JTBC Entertainment (YouTube)